One unlucky subject said that after adjusting her attitude -- expecting good fortune, not dwelling on the negative -- her bad luck had vanished. One day, she went shopping and found a dress she liked. But she didn't buy it, and when she returned to the store in a week, it was gone. Instead of slinking away disappointed, she looked around and found a better dress -- for less. Events like this made her a much happier person.
生活磨人，在歲月的成長中，人難免變得消極。幸運與不幸運，則在乎心境，積極的生活態度能把命運扭轉。有時候，改變自己的一些要求，並不是要你食完屎然後感恩有飯食，而是每天抱怨呱呱嘈，只會錯過更多更好的 alternatives 。